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Pin-pointing and Attracting Your Match

This section is all about clarifying what you’re looking for at your specific stage of life right now. You don’t have to go into a personals database looking for the person you plan on marring. But there are some important key points to remember even when just looking for the next person you’d like to spent a summer with, for example you really should know what kind of lifestyle you are most comfortable in. Is it an active or adventurous one? Then you’re probably not going to want to pursue a relationship with a person with a really time intensive job who would have a hard time traveling on a romantic whim. Or is it a subdued cuddly one? The you’re not going to enjoy have a bar-hopping parting animal as your partner. Oh, and same goes with the old S-E-X word, if it is critical to you to have an exuberant sex life the dating someone you thinks it is dirty and for reproductive purposes purely, will be quite a slap to the libido.

Start figuring out the different ways you send revealing signals with you’re posture, speech, tone of voice, appearance, and general attitude. All of these things and more give so much information to other people about your personality, that it is super important for you to make it your business to dissect each and know for sure what signal you are sending. Otherwise you are going to know what you want …but they won’t know you want them. A perfect example of this is a woman who what’s to settle down and have a wholesome family life. Yet she goes about securing one by wearing tight dresses and going to bars where she is either totally not in the vicinity of the type of guy that would want the same in a relationship. And if those guys were there they would be simply unwilling to fight through the other guys drooling over her cleavage.

When you right your profile, your main goal should for it to be an individual and detailed description of the quintessential parts of your personality. You don’t want to read yours and think, “Oh good, it is just like everyone else’s.” Your profile will blend in like mashed-potatoes on white bread. The more specific the personal is, the more likely it will attract the person you will be most happy with. Simply the action of creating this list of your traits and how they match with the traits of someone else in your ideal relationship will the works into motion as you become more aware of the resources around you.

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