It is amazingly simple to
achieve a balanced self-confidence in both the areas of inner
and outer qualities. First things first catalogue all
of the fabulous qualities about yourself; from the way you
grill a burger to the curve in your ankle, nothing should go
unnoticed. The more specific the better… and the faster you
will start to realize the gravity of your own irresistibility.
Second, explore your ability in helping others. Brightening
other people’s days will inherently give you a shoot of
confidence and balance. Also, go the next step by pushing
yourself to accomplish something you would normally consider
“un-doable”. Doable-shmoable, you can do it, and when you
realize that your confidence will have no self-imposed
boundaries. Try a recipe that always seemed too difficult, go
to a class at your gym that makes your muscles hurt when you
think of it. No matter what you try you’ll feel on top of the
world! Don’t
worry a bit of anxiety about making the move to date it
totally normal, you aren’t going to be some sort of
brick-house of confidence. Have the fun is that little tingle
of uncertainty. So don’t sit around in fear and say
that your just not confident enough to date, because then
you’re going to be sitting for a long time. Just make sure
you’re stable enough not to be dependent, or whinny, or
unfaithful, or that you solely rely on artificial means of
confidence. These things are all signs of perhaps a bit of
much needed attention-to-you-time is needed. Otherwise, GET
OUT THERE AND HAVE SOME FUN!!