It is a proven fact that no matter how much you prepare and
preplan for something the unexpected will happen and laugh in
your organized face. Even though this may seem like a cosmic
kick in the shins it doesn’t have to be taken that way. If you
did take the time to be prepare, when whacked out craziness
does come your way you can take comfort in knowing you did all
you could, and simply relax and laugh about it. When you
relies that something has gone amiss, don’t keep it form your
date, fess up right away. If you don’t they will sense your
uncomfortably and think that is something that they did.
Whether your clothing splits, you forget your wallet, you get
sick, you pass wind, your car breaks down, or you run into a
disgruntled ex, keep calm and solicit help you’d be amazed how
willing people are to lend a hand. Hurray for humanity! Give
your date the benefit of the doubt that they will not be so
shallow to judge you based on an of these mishaps. If they do,
then they did the hard part for you, and that is figure out if
you want to go on a second date with them; which thanks to
their narrow mindedness, you now know for sure that that is
not going to be an option. Do not under any circumstances put
your self in the masochistic position of being below someone
else and unworthy of their complete and utter acceptance,
because you are…big time. And if it ends up being so bad that
the date can’t continue as planned, laugh, and schedule a rain
check. Looking on the bright side of seemingly devastatingly
embarrassing moments makes the difference between a disaster
date and the beginning on an amazing relationship.